tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post7920357609375606728..comments2024-03-21T03:59:17.725+00:00Comments on Moments from Suburbia: 9 to 5Suburbiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05352465945711496612noreply@blogger.comBlogger18125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post-49521340715300511492009-01-13T20:05:00.000+00:002009-01-13T20:05:00.000+00:00Gosh Suburbia, really thinking of you. No, don't ...Gosh Suburbia, really thinking of you. No, don't get talked round. Stick to your resolve. And i get the feeling you will. But thats the trouble when the out-laws get involved. Sod 'em and be true to yourself. <BR/><BR/>xxxxxJennysmithhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04176560381292594341noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post-23616880605395211712009-01-13T17:26:00.000+00:002009-01-13T17:26:00.000+00:00I was going to wish you luck for the meeting but r...I was going to wish you luck for the meeting but realise that I am a bit late. I suppose that it has now happened. I hope it went well.cheshire wifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13944869219641386387noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post-2818544896933406572009-01-13T16:56:00.000+00:002009-01-13T16:56:00.000+00:00Sounds like tricky territory Suburbia, hope you ne...Sounds like tricky territory Suburbia, hope you negotiate it without any trouble.blogthatmamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12584817207287233580noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post-79448208469159127162009-01-13T16:28:00.000+00:002009-01-13T16:28:00.000+00:00Perhaps as he is also an 'outsider' he may be tryi...Perhaps as he is also an 'outsider' he may be trying to get your point of view - on the other hand - I wonder what his agenda could be - it's between you and your husband isn't it?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post-36664944830652068602009-01-13T09:07:00.000+00:002009-01-13T09:07:00.000+00:00I hope today goes well. Remember you always have t...I hope today goes well. <BR/><BR/>Remember you always have the option to say, "I'll think about that" or "that needs some reflection" some similar phrase to give yourself space and not be bounced into anything. <BR/><BR/>If you are not happy with a family member adopting a mediation role, there are disinterested parties you could use, such as www.bristolfamilymediation.org.uk or a couples counsellor.<BR/><BR/>Well done for reaching out for support.XXYXXhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05205278384614133047noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post-75484197151254788712009-01-13T08:54:00.000+00:002009-01-13T08:54:00.000+00:00Hope you meeting goes well - a bit of a difficult ...Hope you meeting goes well - a bit of a difficult situation I think. Perhaps the marriage guidance services may help?Lindsayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05596425511240774220noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post-32577117411093364582009-01-12T22:33:00.000+00:002009-01-12T22:33:00.000+00:00You know my thoughts are with you, oh I have just ...You know my thoughts are with you, oh I have just realised I am logged in as my Dog, sorry!<BR/><BR/>Good luck for tomorrow, and I don't think you should consider yourself "the outsider", you are the hub!<BR/><BR/>Letty x ;0)))))))<BR/><BR/>Signing off as my Dog, how crazy does this blogging get?Marvin -The Hollow Houndhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17477654647518583194noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post-90055310307654254262009-01-12T21:23:00.000+00:002009-01-12T21:23:00.000+00:00Brother-in-law might be more understanding than yo...Brother-in-law might be more understanding than you think. After all, he's an "outsider," too, isn't he? Hope all goes well.Rosehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01384059342847120951noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post-38336685970171360502009-01-12T21:20:00.000+00:002009-01-12T21:20:00.000+00:00Take it all slowly. Good luck tomorrow.Take it all slowly. Good luck tomorrow.Eternal Worrierhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16286099574417884207noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post-71356986469008678852009-01-12T21:12:00.000+00:002009-01-12T21:12:00.000+00:00Wishing you well for the meeting, and for the rest...Wishing you well for the meeting, and for the rest of 2009.Lakeland Johttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13263946096580997595noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post-37779822300804205492009-01-12T21:11:00.001+00:002009-01-12T21:11:00.001+00:00That's good advice from Kitty. When Sally's mum le...That's good advice from Kitty. When Sally's mum left (for another man) with her no more than three I could have said all sorts of things, but took the 'never explain, never complain' line. My ex-wife did the opposite (obviously, in an attempt to justify what she had done) and people naturally drea their own conclusions. Sometimes, less really is more. Hope all goes well tomorrow.Tim Atkinsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00858684167484655029noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post-10138067104351615002009-01-12T21:11:00.000+00:002009-01-12T21:11:00.000+00:00It really is not up to him but if you feel you get...It really is not up to him but if you feel you get on well with him, then just explain & stick to your guns. I don't really see why you should have to, you know.<BR/>Obviously he will stick up for his brother, so I suppose you are at a disadvantage.<BR/>Wouldn't a mediator be better? Someone who has no connections & who could give an unbiased opinion?<BR/>Good luck with it anyway.Maggie Mayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06183886005936250976noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post-67013083945480082082009-01-12T20:35:00.000+00:002009-01-12T20:35:00.000+00:00I remember for a while being overjoyed to just be ...I remember for a while being overjoyed to just be able to escape to work. It was still chaos but a chaos that didn't have any of my emotions attached to it. Much different.<BR/><BR/>As for the concerned BIL--he's really just an outsider himself, isn't he?Dorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17258322944946475959noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post-55788957866559619352009-01-12T20:29:00.000+00:002009-01-12T20:29:00.000+00:00I agree with mean mom that he shouldn't interfere,...I agree with mean mom that he shouldn't interfere, but maybe it'll be a chance for you tell your side? Good luck.Working Mumhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16243697047355131343noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post-46261811691363738682009-01-12T19:16:00.000+00:002009-01-12T19:16:00.000+00:00If you've made up your mind you should stick to it...If you've made up your mind you should stick to it. xAkelamaluhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11234268568845148285noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post-46806247310606959042009-01-12T19:10:00.000+00:002009-01-12T19:10:00.000+00:00Hmmm.... I would feel inclined to say that he shou...Hmmm.... I would feel inclined to say that he shouldn't try to interfere and that no one knows what really goes on in a relationship, except the 2 people involved, but I suppose I shouldn't be speculating about what he has to say. You say that you've always got on with him, so, no doubt he has good intentions, anyway. Hope it all goes OK.Mean Momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07829239249872290230noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post-14317459654224089222009-01-12T19:05:00.000+00:002009-01-12T19:05:00.000+00:00Glad you had a very happy day ... good luck for to...Glad you had a very happy day ... good luck for tomorrow. Listen well, and count to at least 5 before you speak. Will be thinking of you. xKittyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16259837826944310404noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post-46864810377547373312009-01-12T18:13:00.000+00:002009-01-12T18:13:00.000+00:00Hugs for tomorrow {{{Suburbia}}}. There is no nee...Hugs for tomorrow {{{Suburbia}}}. There is no need to feel like an outsider, after all the relationship is between you and your husband. It's up to you how much or how little you choose to discuss.<BR/><BR/>I'll be thinking of you, honey.<BR/><BR/>xxxxAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com