tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post6009732750697943207..comments2024-03-21T03:59:17.725+00:00Comments on Moments from Suburbia: The Sunday Before ChristmasSuburbiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05352465945711496612noreply@blogger.comBlogger27125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post-9246449725395607842008-12-24T22:11:00.000+00:002008-12-24T22:11:00.000+00:00Have to say on reading your posts, I feel you are ...Have to say on reading your posts, I feel you are not a happy bunny in several areas in your life.......ok it takes me a time to click on......sorry.......<BR/><BR/>sorry I may have been insensitive in my advice to you, well such as it was.<BR/><BR/>Just remember to be happy, people tend to put so little emphasis on happiness, when it is the most important thing in the world.<BR/><BR/>To be happy, wake up and know all is well .............<BR/><BR/>oh ok I know little or nothing of your situation, just hug Tall Girl and Small Sprog and be happy.<BR/><BR/>Life is a big path and there are many turnings.....<BR/><BR/>Any time you want to off load I am here.......the anonymous personage. You have my email.<BR/><BR/>Happy Holidays,<BR/><BR/>Letty xxxLetty - A Little Girl With A Curlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08836262006258873208noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post-70529424150494504482008-12-24T22:04:00.000+00:002008-12-24T22:04:00.000+00:00Christmas is the time for thinking.........you are...Christmas is the time for thinking.........<BR/><BR/>you are right "nothing stays the same" and yes "something will happen".....and my wish for you is that 'things' if they have to alter from "the same" work out ok, and if "something happens" it will be a good something.<BR/><BR/>I cannot say any more. But hey, thank you for making me think a wee bit via reading your blog, and looking forward to your musings.<BR/><BR/>One more thing, think deeply about your "own relationship"......these things are precious. do not do anything foolish or spur of the moment.<BR/><BR/>What seems perhaps staid and suburban now, when you look back, may be the best time of your life.<BR/><BR/>Give things time..........<BR/><BR/>My best beloved gave me an engraving which said "grow old with me, the best is best to be".........<BR/><BR/>The test is, if you can believe those words, you will make it.<BR/><BR/>I believed......<BR/><BR/>LettyxLetty - A Little Girl With A Curlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08836262006258873208noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post-45644619045223421922008-12-23T20:29:00.000+00:002008-12-23T20:29:00.000+00:00Sounds to me as though it will be happening sooner...Sounds to me as though it will be happening sooner, than later.<BR/><BR/>I missed you!<BR/><BR/>I also wondered... tongue in cheek, if I'd been gone long enough for you to have that deed done already!<BR/><BR/>Told some of my friends about Small Sprog and R2D2 in the Nativity... so many laughs!<BR/><BR/>I hope that you have a wonderful Christmas. <BR/><BR/>~HUGS~<BR/><BR/>Scarlett & ViaggiatoreWanderlust Scarletthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00551514192060606454noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post-10385942958222251162008-12-23T18:57:00.000+00:002008-12-23T18:57:00.000+00:00Big hugs and a Happy Christmas! A good therapist i...Big hugs and a Happy Christmas! A good therapist is worth megabucks. Maybe a thought for the New Year? All the very best. HxxHadriana's Treasureshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03740533954842010870noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post-52311519519139448222008-12-23T17:39:00.000+00:002008-12-23T17:39:00.000+00:00Do hope that you can enjoy Christmas and that thin...Do hope that you can enjoy Christmas and that things will sort themselves out.cheshire wifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13944869219641386387noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post-42643083398880359402008-12-23T16:13:00.000+00:002008-12-23T16:13:00.000+00:00I'm sorry that you're having such thoughts about y...I'm sorry that you're having such thoughts about your relationship. These decisions are always tough, particularly when there are children involved. I know that you will do whatever is best, however. <BR/><BR/>Do try to have a good Christmas. I have flu, but I'm showing some improvement!Mean Momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07829239249872290230noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post-26144417536175061282008-12-23T02:03:00.000+00:002008-12-23T02:03:00.000+00:00I am hoping, after the year I've just experienced,...I am hoping, after the year I've just experienced, to have one of the most boring, uneventful New Year! We've had enough stress, grief, and 'Great Unknowns' to last us a lifetime! The one highlight was the birth of our second grandson...that was a DEFINITE high point. Thanks so much for stopping in to say hello. I wanted to stop by and wish you the most wonderful Christmas ever!MissKrishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12726021829363492972noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post-38249362119766592992008-12-22T23:02:00.000+00:002008-12-22T23:02:00.000+00:00You are beginning to say what I have been thinking...You are beginning to say what I have been thinking for a while. I have been there and survived. So did my children. You will do what is right. Take care and Merry Christmas to you all.Barbarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00682070120172969234noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post-45423417241717513302008-12-22T21:02:00.000+00:002008-12-22T21:02:00.000+00:00Brett, you lovely man, thanks :)Gill, hope you are...Brett, you lovely man, thanks :)<BR/><BR/>Gill, hope you are ok over Christmas<BR/><BR/>Worrier, it makes perfect sense, I know you've been there, thanks.<BR/><BR/><BR/>Lindsay :)<BR/><BR/>Fi,thanks for your thoughtful comment and advice.<BR/><BR/>Polly, thanks. Sometimes the music HAS to be loud!<BR/><BR/>Rose, good to see you, Merry Christmas :)Suburbiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05352465945711496612noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post-82796579480293866072008-12-22T18:56:00.000+00:002008-12-22T18:56:00.000+00:00If i can be of any help, you know where i am.If i can be of any help, you know where i am.Bretthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11807796517043303774noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post-67915449964194749292008-12-22T18:00:00.000+00:002008-12-22T18:00:00.000+00:00I enjoyed your post, it made me think of a couple ...I enjoyed your post, it made me think of a couple of things that are going on in our lives over here.<BR/><BR/>A good food for thought post, thank you.<BR/><BR/>Merry Christmas to you and your family,<BR/><BR/>Gill in Canada<BR/><BR/>P.S. Want to see snow, pop over to my blog!!!!Gill - That British Womanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17456247587052149765noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post-50721940319368949732008-12-22T14:39:00.000+00:002008-12-22T14:39:00.000+00:00I wanted to say something wise, full of insight an...I wanted to say something wise, full of insight and help in reply to your post...but I can’t think of a single useful thing. <BR/><BR/>Nobody in the world has been through your situation, but remember lots of people have been through that situation. <BR/><BR/>Does that make sense?Eternal Worrierhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16286099574417884207noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post-41998044455832360752008-12-22T11:33:00.000+00:002008-12-22T11:33:00.000+00:00Thinking of you.Thinking of you.Lindsayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05596425511240774220noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post-12185191268731150662008-12-22T06:01:00.000+00:002008-12-22T06:01:00.000+00:00I like comments to be meaningful and add to the po...I like comments to be meaningful and add to the post... but really, just want to say that I was here, I read it and I was moved enough to write... and having been through it, know how scary and murky and slow the process is in realising that all is not well and that you might have to take action, eventually.<BR/>Knowing things are not right doesnt't mean it is over. <BR/>You can try...<BR/>but if you feel belittled, or scared, or are worried in any way, go.<BR/>Otherwise, I read somewhere, "the decision to end your marriage should take at least as long as the time it too you to enter into it". Think long and act slowly. <BR/><BR/>And how do you show him love and affection - does he respond to your actions, or is he indifferent?<BR/><BR/>SO many questions but really, the only thing that matters is that you and the children are ok<BR/>:)Fi from Four Paws and Whiskershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11217307759511472654noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post-43415897320662207412008-12-21T22:44:00.000+00:002008-12-21T22:44:00.000+00:00Sometimes loud music heals everything.Christmas ti...Sometimes loud music heals everything.<BR/><BR/>Christmas time always seems to bring about the soul searching. I hope that you are able to reflect and find what you need. <BR/><BR/>Pol.Pollyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17237061502041133837noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post-37494761670099152212008-12-21T22:22:00.000+00:002008-12-21T22:22:00.000+00:00I left a comment earlier, but I think Blogger woul...I left a comment earlier, but I think Blogger wouldn't take it...<BR/><BR/>I haven't spent much time reading blogs lately with all the Christmas preparations to do, and here I've missed three posts!<BR/><BR/>Family get-togethers are either great for cheering you up or very stressful--glad yours was the former.<BR/><BR/>Your Mum was lucky to retrieve all her packages the other day. My aunt once did something similar with a birthday cake; unfortunately, the cake didn't make it:)<BR/><BR/>Small Sprog has been ill? Hope he is recovered for Christmas!Rosehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01384059342847120951noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post-59701801470468299682008-12-21T21:40:00.000+00:002008-12-21T21:40:00.000+00:00Thanks Maggie:)Saz, yes when you have time let me ...Thanks Maggie:)<BR/><BR/>Saz, yes when you have time let me know.<BR/><BR/>Jen and Jo, will let you have the link for snow!Suburbiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05352465945711496612noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post-74233589862302276162008-12-21T21:31:00.000+00:002008-12-21T21:31:00.000+00:00LIke Jenny I would like some snow please too? I ho...LIke Jenny I would like some snow please too? <BR/>I hope the New Year brings you a lot of happinessLakeland Johttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13263946096580997595noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post-77458253985933026562008-12-21T21:26:00.000+00:002008-12-21T21:26:00.000+00:00Oh.... Suburbia..... you are feeling sad......I am...Oh.... Suburbia..... you are feeling sad......<BR/>I am beginning to put pieces together and I am sad for you.<BR/>((hugs))Maggie Mayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06183886005936250976noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post-17994629709526678492008-12-21T21:13:00.001+00:002008-12-21T21:13:00.001+00:00my son save dup and bought himself an itouch l too...my son save dup and bought himself an itouch l too covet it..and havent had a go at the tilting.<BR/><BR/>just watched...Sazhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04433666175721615185noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post-65812727699319806482008-12-21T21:13:00.000+00:002008-12-21T21:13:00.000+00:00oh my dearie... this time of year does evoke deep ...oh my dearie... this time of year does evoke deep thoughts and contemplation...<BR/><BR/>try and let it all flow over you...difficult I know...so you don't wallow..<BR/><BR/>l must check out google chat..and we can spend some time over the hols..chatting???yes/noSazhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04433666175721615185noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post-37192888100302509182008-12-21T19:56:00.000+00:002008-12-21T19:56:00.000+00:00umm - sweetie, how does one get the snow on one's ...umm - sweetie, how does one get the snow on one's blogpage? xxxAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post-40725856392453294732008-12-21T19:55:00.000+00:002008-12-21T19:55:00.000+00:00You need time to think about this. Its funny how ...You need time to think about this. <BR/><BR/>Its funny how we get this sudden sort of clarity. Oh Lordy, pass that bottle........xxxxAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post-64880427643889806882008-12-21T19:34:00.000+00:002008-12-21T19:34:00.000+00:00You are right, nothing stays the same but it's sad...You are right, nothing stays the same but it's sad when a relationship ends. :(Akelamaluhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11234268568845148285noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post-60303335125607296102008-12-21T18:20:00.000+00:002008-12-21T18:20:00.000+00:00Kitty, I know you understand, thanks for your comm...Kitty, I know you understand, thanks for your comment :)Suburbiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05352465945711496612noreply@blogger.com