tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post8110367056752932847..comments2024-03-21T03:59:17.725+00:00Comments on Moments from Suburbia: Best bits?Suburbiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05352465945711496612noreply@blogger.comBlogger20125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post-41590197005902920612010-01-17T10:40:09.148+00:002010-01-17T10:40:09.148+00:00I have lots to catch up with, I only realised the ...I have lots to catch up with, I only realised the other day how remiss I had been with my personal blog, and catching up with all my favourite ones, yours of course!<br /><br />I will read and comment more later, just to say I think you are doing fine, and I wish you all the very best for this coming year.<br /><br />You have the right attitude, you will be fine! easy for me to say, but I just think you will be, if you keep on with the postive stuff!<br /><br />more later when I get some "me time" to read, write and comment!<br /><br />lotsaluv, Letty Who Is Mighty Sick of Snow!!!!!!!Letty - A Little Girl With A Curlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08836262006258873208noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post-33407473255588369262010-01-16T22:06:15.959+00:002010-01-16T22:06:15.959+00:00Overall a positive memory of the year I think and ...Overall a positive memory of the year I think and so much to look forward to.Liz Hindshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04646532093872561703noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post-27021605094486011982010-01-16T21:30:55.650+00:002010-01-16T21:30:55.650+00:00The mediator will not let him walk all over you. T...The mediator will not let him walk all over you. That is what he is there for to keep the peace.<br /><br />I like the list of things that you have learned. Each one of those is for me too.<br /><br /><a href="http://granniemay.blogspot.com/" rel="nofollow">Nuts in May</a>Maggie Mayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06183886005936250976noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post-27307717677980261892010-01-16T10:36:33.308+00:002010-01-16T10:36:33.308+00:00Hey I like those 5 things. I almost feel jealous....Hey I like those 5 things. I almost feel jealous. Was beginning to wonder where you had got to!Eternal Worrierhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16286099574417884207noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post-38635204036852686832010-01-15T19:14:05.298+00:002010-01-15T19:14:05.298+00:00As you say, even a year ago is still too recent du...As you say, even a year ago is still too recent during the process of divorce. However, you have recognised the progress you have made so far and this must be a comfort for you as take the next steps. Good luck.<br /><br />PS If it reassures you - my friend was a mediator and her job was to ensure that no one got bullied, everyone had a chance to speak and that all parties reached a solution that they were happy with so that there were no recriminations later. She trained for a long time (after becoming a solicitor) to do this job because she didn't want any children to go through a difficult divorce like she did when she was young. That's what mediators do.Working Mumhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16243697047355131343noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post-487846224972248422010-01-15T19:11:29.380+00:002010-01-15T19:11:29.380+00:00oh golly, sub, that made me all teary and l can s ...oh golly, sub, that made me all teary and l can s relate to all you say, as you know!<br />Hope next week wont be too lonely for you..keep in touch, text, chat...l'll not be far!!<br /><br />in out in out...<br /><br />saz xoxoxSazhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04433666175721615185noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post-59101515353554188932010-01-15T18:25:11.265+00:002010-01-15T18:25:11.265+00:00Steve is right the mediator should make sure that ...Steve is right the mediator should make sure that your aren't bullied, that is his job. Best of luck with it!cheshire wifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13944869219641386387noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post-7638645343221196912010-01-15T16:39:09.099+00:002010-01-15T16:39:09.099+00:00Rediscovering yourself is a HUGE thing and one tha...Rediscovering yourself is a HUGE thing and one that you should be really really proud of!! It's very easy to be complacent...breaking out of that is incredibly difficult. Credit where credit is due hon...if I was wearing a hat I would take it off to you!!<br /><br />This will all be worth it in the end!!<br /><br />C xCarolhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12327016337976942530noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post-81528507166360721972010-01-15T16:29:00.104+00:002010-01-15T16:29:00.104+00:00Your five good things from last year are five of t...Your five good things from last year are five of the best things anyone could ever wish for. I so hope by this time next year you have all these potential problems behind you.<br /><br />thinking of you<br /><br />xFrench Fancy...https://www.blogger.com/profile/04941577892849157015noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post-38375781335701433272010-01-15T12:53:36.036+00:002010-01-15T12:53:36.036+00:00If the mediator is worth his salary he will enable...If the mediator is worth his salary he will enable you to have a voice without being raliroaded by your husband! Good luck with it!Stevehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02133900289384226725noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post-85735218904960746702010-01-15T10:52:49.181+00:002010-01-15T10:52:49.181+00:00Yes you will. I understand the frustration of want...Yes you will. I understand the frustration of wanting things to move/change faster...but I think you and I have watched each other learn a little more than our fair share of patience over the past year, and perhaps gained the knowledge that we have the strength to pull through. Good luck fellow warrior woman!Reasonshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03070633072307321162noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post-57743879773104476122010-01-15T09:43:04.010+00:002010-01-15T09:43:04.010+00:00I think your best bits are pretty impressive actua...I think your best bits are pretty impressive actually, esp given your current situation.<br /><br />Good luck with the mediation.Furtheronhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11903753972242964410noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post-44239282726099520232010-01-15T09:15:23.739+00:002010-01-15T09:15:23.739+00:00That does sound very positive, as if the fog and m...That does sound very positive, as if the fog and murk is gradually clearing and you're emerging into a brighter, sunnier place. I hope the mediator is good enough at his job to prevent husband bullying and browbeating, as you say he might do, and help you to get a fair deal.nickhttp://nickhereandnow.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post-3135236328644359462010-01-15T08:14:45.887+00:002010-01-15T08:14:45.887+00:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Jasonhttp://www.thatvacationfeeling.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post-15172240631226793502010-01-15T08:14:06.146+00:002010-01-15T08:14:06.146+00:00Thanks a lot Dott, don't feel that great right...Thanks a lot Dott, don't feel that great right now but need to keep positive.Suburbiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05352465945711496612noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post-35795154446069869762010-01-15T08:12:19.368+00:002010-01-15T08:12:19.368+00:00That's a wonderfully upbeat new year post. It ...That's a wonderfully upbeat new year post. It looks like you've moved (or scaled) several mountains there, and very soon the mist will clear and you'll be able to enjoy the view!Tim Atkinsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00858684167484655029noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post-18909374243951396582010-01-15T08:04:44.180+00:002010-01-15T08:04:44.180+00:00Comment left above by Chic Mama:
It's so hard...Comment left above by Chic Mama:<br /><br />It's so hard looking back isn't it. I agree if we knew how long these processes take at the beginning it would make it seem all the more daunting.<br />I'm pleased the appointment was okay and I hope you don't have to wait too long for the joint one so you can hopefully start moving forward. XXSuburbiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05352465945711496612noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post-54759411453707441532010-01-15T07:44:22.165+00:002010-01-15T07:44:22.165+00:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Cherished By Mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15597487484581237183noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post-86380891387607073182010-01-15T06:43:20.730+00:002010-01-15T06:43:20.730+00:00Hi Rose, I was snowed in on and off, it doesn'...Hi Rose, I was snowed in on and off, it doesn't take much snow to do that here!However the weather seemed to know when it was my day off work, so I didn't really benefit when the school closed! Hope all is well with you :)Suburbiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05352465945711496612noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post-2308893627671798612010-01-15T02:00:33.556+00:002010-01-15T02:00:33.556+00:00I think the fact you have found yourself is a majo...I think the fact you have found yourself is a major accomplishment for the year! You have grown and gotten stronger, too, as the year progressed. By next year, you may have a long list of "best bits" to write about!<br /><br />Glad to see you posting today--I was wondering if you were still snowed in.Rosehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01384059342847120951noreply@blogger.com