tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post969790500945265369..comments2024-03-21T03:59:17.725+00:00Comments on Moments from Suburbia: Just fineSuburbiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05352465945711496612noreply@blogger.comBlogger19125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post-91649292388059071812011-02-04T10:19:45.569+00:002011-02-04T10:19:45.569+00:00How insensitive of your Dr. He really should have...How insensitive of your Dr. He really should have read the signs of how low you have become. How would you feel about going back and seeing another Dr, and just pouring out your heart. That's what I had to do when I was going through a rough patch back in the 90s. You really need to find some care and understanding from someone professional. xthis is my patchhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02865567572989902864noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post-16485857095088311932011-02-02T17:15:01.877+00:002011-02-02T17:15:01.877+00:00Gosh, thanks everyone.
Liz, that sounds lovely, ...Gosh, thanks everyone. <br /><br />Liz, that sounds lovely, you are kind.<br /><br />Kitty, thanks so much. I just feel like I'm constantly whining tho'!<br /><br />Reasons, don't feel strong right now, but thanks for reminding me!<br /><br />Good to see you back Sam<br /><br />Valerie, I hadn't and thanks.<br /><br />Casdoc, I will give it a try, but trying to avoid alcohol at the mo. Making me worse I think.<br /><br />Rose, your garden always cheers me up :-)<br /><br />Nick, court date next week. Fingers crossed.Suburbiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05352465945711496612noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post-60057131656443820662011-01-31T22:09:58.818+00:002011-01-31T22:09:58.818+00:00praying that it all works out well for you... some...praying that it all works out well for you... some times right at the last min and when you least expect it they do x xsally in norfolkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01074893417920674907noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post-91733874763942389642011-01-31T18:04:44.967+00:002011-01-31T18:04:44.967+00:00You sound really fed up. I dont want to say someth...You sound really fed up. I dont want to say something naff like'It will work itself out' because that easy to say. I wonder though, there are lots of people having the same problems. xxEternal Worrierhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16286099574417884207noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post-66468669162347727772011-01-31T08:06:42.327+00:002011-01-31T08:06:42.327+00:00Oh I am so sorry. I think you do need some support...Oh I am so sorry. I think you do need some support and I know it is hard to ask friends but really I think sometimes we do need to reach out. You are used to being independent and coping but you still will be, it is just that sometimes talking helps us to figure things out for ourselves. Could you try appealing to your husband's better nature, maybe by setting emotions, pride etc aside and working out a way just to get what you need? Whatever you decide to do, I know you can do this Sub, you are a strong, capable woman, this comes through time and time again in your writing, this is a low patch, you will come through. Hugs xxReasonshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03070633072307321162noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post-55200496603838449052011-01-29T10:13:50.342+00:002011-01-29T10:13:50.342+00:00My stress is also in my neck and i was once told t...My stress is also in my neck and i was once told to every now and again bite really hard on something (wine corks are good!) - it helps release the tension. Or maybe just drink the wine!!!<br /><br />Oh what a difficult situation - my heart goes out to you. Somehow the universe has a way or working out.Casdokhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03497897393162856190noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post-17595031757014584862011-01-28T22:38:57.173+00:002011-01-28T22:38:57.173+00:00I hope that writing about it all helps - I would g...I hope that writing about it all helps - I would go crazy without my blog. Would you get a second opinion about your neck?Looking for Blue Skyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10010049814419812468noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post-65951933628632575632011-01-28T19:35:18.445+00:002011-01-28T19:35:18.445+00:00How do you fancy a trip to a little pub just outsi...How do you fancy a trip to a little pub just outside Cardiff?Liz Hindshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04646532093872561703noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post-54080158112308994682011-01-28T15:11:08.172+00:002011-01-28T15:11:08.172+00:00You do need someone to talk to - either profession...You do need someone to talk to - either professional or a solid reliable friend.<br /><br />I'm very lucky - I found many friends since I stopped drinking. They listen to me rant, smile, nod, laugh, offer suggestions .... whatever it helps me meet the next day.<br /><br />Good luck - however I am sure deep down that things will get betterFurtheronhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11903753972242964410noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post-6980302293201795322011-01-27T19:32:51.703+00:002011-01-27T19:32:51.703+00:00I see I haven't been the only one having a rou...I see I haven't been the only one having a rough year. I agree with Steve - without my few, but very close, friends I would have gone crazy by now!Samhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07346211971626669057noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post-86615904215355907352011-01-27T18:43:05.546+00:002011-01-27T18:43:05.546+00:00Just saw your comment on my last post, Suburbia. ...Just saw your comment on my last post, Suburbia. I'm hoping that it was a metaphor for you--may the days ahead be "warmer" and "greener" for you. Hugs, RoseRosehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01384059342847120951noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post-7358833290967872052011-01-27T16:19:57.530+00:002011-01-27T16:19:57.530+00:00I know what the need to offload is like. Have you ...I know what the need to offload is like. Have you thought about ringing the Samaritans? You might think it's embarrassing but it really isn't. They're there to help. Do give it a try.Valeriehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12099030819314552958noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post-71391187628762093982011-01-27T13:52:46.252+00:002011-01-27T13:52:46.252+00:00I'm with Kitty--you need someone to talk to, S...I'm with Kitty--you need someone to talk to, Suburbia. Keeping all these worries inside will only make your neck feel worse, if it is indeed stress-related. It's good to be able to let your feelings out here, but none of us, your blogging friends, can lend a real shoulder to cry on. I'm sure some of your friends would love to offer an ear and their support. That's what a good friend is--being there in the bad times as well as good.Rosehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01384059342847120951noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post-28618085824609152372011-01-27T12:31:31.243+00:002011-01-27T12:31:31.243+00:00You need to talk to someone ... is it worth going ...You need to talk to someone ... is it worth going back to the doctor and asking to see the practice counsellor? That's what they're there for - to listen to people who's worries are making them feel bad.<br /><br />I'm on the end of an email if it helps? Hang on in there.<br /><br />xxxKittyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16259837826944310404noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post-41839530310971894702011-01-27T09:28:58.264+00:002011-01-27T09:28:58.264+00:00Sorry to hear you're so miserable. Just why is...Sorry to hear you're so miserable. Just why is the solicitor preventing the money being handed over to you? You obviously need the money right now.<br /><br />I'm with Steve. You really need to pour it all out to a friend and get their advice and sympathy. You'll feel so much better. That's what friends are there for, to help with an emotional crisis.nickhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10472673041193755894noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post-8748379494122019372011-01-27T08:20:50.841+00:002011-01-27T08:20:50.841+00:00Thank youThank youSuburbiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05352465945711496612noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post-75138773597734554602011-01-27T08:08:04.287+00:002011-01-27T08:08:04.287+00:00Pick one of your friends, lay claim to them for a ...Pick one of your friends, lay claim to them for a night - explain that you need someone to talk to; any friend will be proud and honoured that you chose them - and then pour it all out. You need the release and the headspace that will follow. Then you may find that solutions will come.Stevehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02133900289384226725noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post-3009724311705797882011-01-27T04:36:04.585+00:002011-01-27T04:36:04.585+00:00I learned a long time ago that "just fine&quo...I learned a long time ago that "just fine" means the exact opposite. <br /><br />I'd offer to help, but there isn't much I can do from here, and you probably don't need a dog in your life at this point. <br /><br />You need some real money and a real job. I have neither to offer.<br /><br />Blessings, nuzzles and licks, if any of those will help.Miss Sadiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08569594607534260565noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6009468722326751050.post-29020898754939340682011-01-26T23:14:06.192+00:002011-01-26T23:14:06.192+00:00Oh...... that is really sad.
I wish I had solution...Oh...... that is really sad.<br />I wish I had solutions that I could offer you.<br /><br />On a practical level..... are you sure the neck problem isn't about being on the wrong level when you are asleep? Have you tried one pillow instead of two?<br />I have never found doctors are good with backs and necks. I go to a chiropractor once every 3 months but that is expensive too. <br /><br />I think you need to talk to someone. Maybe someone who isn't close to you.<br />Fingers crossed for you.<br />Maggie X<br /><br /><a href="http://granniemay.blogspot.com/" rel="nofollow">Nuts in May</a>Maggie Mayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06183886005936250976noreply@blogger.com